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"It may not always be obvious, but children want and need
routines. A predictable schedule offers structure that helps kids
feel safe and secure.
By building one, you send a message that says,
"This is how we do things." Routines make daily activities manageable,
allowing your child to focus on one thing at a time."
Source: ADDitutdeMag.com

Admittedly, rules and programs are a lot of work to maintain. You have to
think them up, explain them to your child, and then be consistent about
following through.
Make it easier on yourself — and boost your odds
of successful results — by not using more than one incentive
chart at a time. It can be hard to stick to a routine when you're
juggling schedules of multiple children or if you have a demanding
job, but if you can dig in and stay consistent, you'll reap the
rewards. www.babycenter.com